Girl Problems HELP

Ilikepremix
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10/23/2017 9:12am Edited Date/Time 10/27/2017 7:55pm
I know this is vital where we talk Moto. Hopefully you can take a second read my long ass story and help me… So I started talking to this beautiful smart girl we went out on our first date and we hit it off it was an instant connection we dated for 3 months and this douchey older kid came into the relationship and I’m not a controlling guy I just asked for her to stop speaking to him so she did and we kept dating them like April of this year she started talking to her best friend’s boyfriend and I was like yo that’s not a good idea she’s crazy and you both are in a relationship so then this when shit started getting wicked she stopped talking to him. Then one morning in June I woke up and she and I weren’t #1 bestfriends on Snapchat anymore so I go to work with her that day and when she wasn’t looking I snagged her phone and guess who it was. It was the dude whose dating her best friend I freak out and dump her then me being the little pussy I am and her being my first love I wanted her back and she wouldn’t let me back into the picture so I chased her this whole summer and she wouldn’t let me in and she got heavily into partying and I’m not really the biggest fan that… So then in August I crashed at her house then when we were laying in bed talking and I’m like what are you upto tonight trying to hangout with her she said my friends and I are just hanging out then people told me a bunch of guys were there and I busted her for making out with another dude and I’ve been chasing ever since then I’m on and off with her. Her friends hate me her mom hates me now she’s telling her that I’m absuive and controlling which isn’t even true… so what do I do!! Thanks for everyone who read this far your opinion will be greatly appreciated. Love Tyler ❤️
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GuyB
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10/23/2017 11:16am
Run the other direction.

Oh, and girls are Non-Moto. Smile
HenryA
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10/23/2017 11:17am
Just when you think that you've seen it all... Huh
Whymee
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10/23/2017 11:19am
Puppy love is a bitch.
Zesiger 112
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10/23/2017 11:19am
That's a lot of shit to happen in a few months of dating. Move on dude she ain't worth it. She will continue to do this, along with many other bad decisions, her friends will back her the whole way till she's in to deep then they will bail. You don't want to get caught in that.
I understand the connection and wanting to keep her from bad decisions and hurting but she doesn't want your sympathy and you'll learn, some people ain't worrh the sympathy. MOVE ON.

Now back to your regularly scheduled moto talk.

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SEE ARE125
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10/23/2017 11:20am
You should go ahead and get her pregnant already.
dirtmike86
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10/23/2017 11:20am
Get this shit out of here.
Donovan759
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10/23/2017 11:21am
Yeah dude.. run away from all that and don't go back. Not worth it at all...

But this should be posted in "Non-Moto".. Not "Moto Related".
Motoxdoc
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10/23/2017 11:23am
Wow that's a duzy of a first post! Be prepared for some roost from most vital members here. Sounds like you're young.....like highschool drama. Everyone thought their first love was IT.....and that is seldom the case. The bottom line is, what does she think about motocross?....how about supercross? Untill you know this, there's not enough info to make a good judgement.
rongi#401
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10/23/2017 11:24am
lets see what she looks like
10/23/2017 11:26am
Go after her mom, marry her mom ,then turn around and say whos your daddy
49weasel
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10/23/2017 11:26am Edited Date/Time 10/23/2017 11:31am
I heard this saying along time ago.
You’ll never lose any pussy chasing money , but you’ll always lose money chasing pussy.

Ride, make money and cool chicks will find you.
boston_jorj
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10/23/2017 11:26am
Tits or GTFO.
Camp332
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10/23/2017 11:27am
mauidex
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10/23/2017 11:27am
pussy makes you stupidWhistlingWhistling
kburgie
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10/23/2017 11:32am
You are probably at least a little controlling (checking her phone, "busting" her with another guy). It's really, really hard not to be, especially when you feel threatened by other people she hangs out with, but that's exactly what she's talking about. I also don’t think this girl would agree that you two are on and off. It sounds like it’s just off.

It's hard to let go sometimes but it never works out to pursue someone who's not interested in you. You're just going to bring yourself more pain. Don't fight with her or her mom and don't talk shit about her to mutual friends. Just walk away from it and go do other things you enjoy. Definitely don't go do things you don't want to do for a person who doesn't want to be with you.
F.B
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10/23/2017 11:40am
Go after her mom, marry her mom ,then turn around and say whos your daddy
Exactly.
F.B
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10/23/2017 11:41am
Tits or GTFO.
Exactly.
F.B
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10/23/2017 11:42am
mauidex wrote:
pussy makes you stupidWhistlingWhistling
Exactly.
omalley
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10/23/2017 11:50am
I think we rushed to judgement. We don’t know the OP well enough yet. This could be the perfect gal, if his life goals include the following:

-being the subject of a protection order
-having to get a protection order
-coming home to an empty house, a dead pet and a knife holding a “f— you” note to the wall
-slashed tires
-keyed car/truck
-coming home to her banging her dealer
-etc...

To the OP, if these are NOT your goals, RUN, don’t walk away from that shit. I don’t care how pretty she is, how good she is in bed or if she’s got money. Women (and men) like that will leave you high and dry one day with irreparable damage to you, those you cared about, and the things you hold dear (like moto). Unless this is just a phase with her, let her wind up where her natural course takes her: 40-50, worn out, penny-less, and bitching about how her shit situation is everyone else’s fault. You don’t want any part of it.

Brad460
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10/23/2017 11:54am Edited Date/Time 10/23/2017 11:57am
Holy run on sentences..concentrate of school/college and less on girls..Blink
SCR
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10/23/2017 11:56am
The important thing is that you came to the right place for advice.
JAFO92
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10/23/2017 12:02pm
Brad460 wrote:
Holy run on sentences..concentrate of school/college and less on girls..Blink
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10/23/2017 12:03pm
Quit being a pussy, move on and get a hotter chick! Women absolutely hate when you get someone hotter than they are.

Besides, women weaken legs!

JAFO92
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10/23/2017 12:04pm
SCR wrote:
The important thing is that you came to the right place for advice.
Exactly.

To summarize:



JRT812
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10/23/2017 12:06pm
What the... first tip Tyler, don't end your future posts with love Tyler and a heart emoji.
gabrielito
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10/23/2017 12:11pm
bro, she's just not that into you. There's a lot of other girls out there that will be, focus on them. It's okay to move on to other people and things. Maybe think about joining the Army.
Dtat720
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10/23/2017 12:18pm
I cant wait to hear how this ends on the news
JRT812
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10/23/2017 12:20pm
gabrielito wrote:
bro, she's just not that into you. There's a lot of other girls out there that will be, focus on them. It's okay to move on...
bro, she's just not that into you. There's a lot of other girls out there that will be, focus on them. It's okay to move on to other people and things. Maybe think about joining the Army.
Or take up knitting and make a pair of mittens. Its about to get cold.
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